Zesty (Jon) tried to persuade the raging half-orc to chill, but... Rage.In our campaign, we tied up a member of our group because we couldn’t trust them… that is always an option for murder-orcs and fleeing kobolds
And yeah, taking an action like that against another party member is permissible. The "don't make other people do things they don't want to" is truly more that you just don't write/act for someone else's character in your own posts. You cannot literally control someone else's character, from a meta-game perspective. We've tried to avoid just making people do stuff they didn't want to, but sometimes it'll just have to happen.