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The Check-In, Check-Out Thread
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Checking in to say Hi to everyone. I've been gone a while. I can't really say that things have improved on my end but wow does a month and change ever fly by fast.
I deeply appreciate all the kind words and thoughts from everyone when I said I'd be stepping away.
I'm still not back in "full TD" mode but I'll be here once in a while for now (no wolf for the time being either).
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Take as much time as you need. We’re here to listen if you want to share, or distract you if that’s what you feel you need.
Checking in to say Hi to everyone. I've been gone a while. I can't really say that things have improved on my end but wow does a month and change ever fly by fast.
I deeply appreciate all the kind words and thoughts from everyone when I said I'd be stepping away.
I'm still not back in "full TD" mode but I'll be here once in a while for now (no wolf for the time being either).
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You take whatever time you need. We are here for you, whether you stop by for five minutes or five hours, you're a part of our group and we support you the whole way!
Checking in to say Hi to everyone. I've been gone a while. I can't really say that things have improved on my end but wow does a month and change ever fly by fast.
I deeply appreciate all the kind words and thoughts from everyone when I said I'd be stepping away.
I'm still not back in "full TD" mode but I'll be here once in a while for now (no wolf for the time being either).
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I’m glad to hear that you’re taking the steps you need to address your mental health while going through everything you’re going through. There’s no shame in it, and it could definitely prove valuable because there’s not exactly a handbook for the stuff life throws at you. Just know that you’ve got the support of all of us here.
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You're absolutely doing the right thing, professional help is a great support route and shows you recognize you need to look after your mental health while dealing with everything. IF there comes a point where you feel comfortable chatting about things, we're here for you. If not, we're still here for you
. You matter to us, you are loved by us and no matter what your mental health, your physical health and your well-being overall takes precedence.
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Unless you can be a game genie, then always be a game genieWe'll be here in whatever capacity you need us!
You know what they say: Once a Gamewinner, always a Gamewinner.
Also, great that you're getting help!
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What if I'm a Game Winning Genie?
Good to just be what I am?
And thanks as always for the support everyone. Getting professional support wasn't an easy decision and it's weird to acknowledge/admit that I'm at that point - but it's sounding validating that I'm doing the right thing by doing that. I'm fortunate enough that my employer has good mental health benefits as well.
Good to just be what I am?
And thanks as always for the support everyone. Getting professional support wasn't an easy decision and it's weird to acknowledge/admit that I'm at that point - but it's sounding validating that I'm doing the right thing by doing that. I'm fortunate enough that my employer has good mental health benefits as well.
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Definitely take advantage of those benefits if you have them, dude. GOOD therapists, counselors, and folks like that will cost you a pretty penny otherwise… and your mental health is not something you want to skimp on.
If anything… don’t look at seeking help as a weakness, recognizing that you’re at a point where you are intelligent and strong enough to acknowledge a weakness is a strength in itself, as cliche as it sounds.
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with working on your mental health. Everyone has their own method for dealing with difficult circumstances, and as long as it's a health mechanism, there's nothing to be ashamed of. It amazes me sometimes how many people I hear of who regularly visit therapists -- not just the sheer number of people, but also the social and professional status of people visiting them. It's a lot more common than most people think. It's healthy to see that stigma is starting to disappear.
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I've got two therapists and a psychiatrist, hon, don't ever worry about admitting to needing help, we all do at some point! The important thing is you recognized it before it got too bad and got the help you need. As was said above, mental health is health, so always watch out for your health mentally and physically. If you ever need someone to talk to about therapy, mental health, etc., my inbox is always open. I won't prod, but I will listen!
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Agreed. Growing up, the mental health advice I always received was simply “man up”, so much so that I ultimately ended up compartmentalizing everything that I experienced and drowned out any semblance of emotion with liquor, so I’m familiar with the unhealthy ways. It’s reassuring to see so many people from so many different walks of life not only admit to not being “okay” all of the time, but speaking out to make others feel comfortable enough or humble enough to say “hey… maybe I could talk to somebody about my bullshit, too”. It’s the good kind of ripple effect we need to see… because we all know that we see enough bad ones.
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And probably unironically given my hesitancy, I also grew up with the "man up", "only women cry", "be tougher", "don't talk about it", "just deal with it", etc.
Society as a whole has definitely come a long way with the stigma but it's also still a very real thing in many places - for many people.
Society as a whole has definitely come a long way with the stigma but it's also still a very real thing in many places - for many people.
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Absolutely, and while compartmentalization is an important skill to possess, it can also be painfully isolating. It’s why so many people end up feeling alone, or at the very least… like others wouldn’t understand their situation. Coupled with the “man up” approach, it creates this belief that if you can’t handle your problems without asking for help that you’re either less of a man, a burden on your family, friends, and peers, or just weak in general. While none of those are true… they CAN become true if you put that wall up, don’t talk to someone about your feelings, and compartmentalize them. You’ve clearly been around the block enough times to know that if you don’t do something proactive, you’ll be in a much worse spot, which speaks volumes about how committed you are to keeping your head right and it is admirable.
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Aww, Nebby, always good to see youHey all, long time no see! Just wanted to pop in and say hi.
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Well, our long cheer competition adventure is over**
My daughter's team finished 4th out of 10 in their grouping - top 3 moved onto Nationals in Florida in two weeks. She took it well, they did better than anyone thought and though there were a bunch of crying kids yesterday, they were all awesome. We are sad, but at the same time I woke up this morning, cancelled our flights and hotel in Florida, and now don't have to run her to and from practice this week or next. It's been almost 2 months of competitions and they are done.
Only photo I took - this was intense. This was before it started, the place was packed and we were there for over 5 hours yesterday. It's the UNH hockey arena. We spent the weekend in Portsmouth NH, which is now one of my favorite towns. It felt like going back in time before brands/chains filled every street.
** Next week BOTH daughters are starting a club cheer group that runs 6 months and has competitions in three different cities. Hopefully they are on the same team, otherwise we have to stay at each competition for twice as long. It's tiring but fun in a way. This one is expensive so they better take it seriously *shakes fist*
My daughter's team finished 4th out of 10 in their grouping - top 3 moved onto Nationals in Florida in two weeks. She took it well, they did better than anyone thought and though there were a bunch of crying kids yesterday, they were all awesome. We are sad, but at the same time I woke up this morning, cancelled our flights and hotel in Florida, and now don't have to run her to and from practice this week or next. It's been almost 2 months of competitions and they are done.
Only photo I took - this was intense. This was before it started, the place was packed and we were there for over 5 hours yesterday. It's the UNH hockey arena. We spent the weekend in Portsmouth NH, which is now one of my favorite towns. It felt like going back in time before brands/chains filled every street.
** Next week BOTH daughters are starting a club cheer group that runs 6 months and has competitions in three different cities. Hopefully they are on the same team, otherwise we have to stay at each competition for twice as long. It's tiring but fun in a way. This one is expensive so they better take it seriously *shakes fist*
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Happy Thanksgiving to you!!Good Morning! Want to wish those in the USA a Happy Thanksgiving this week. Spend time with family & friends & enjoy your holiday
Wow, that's a LOT of people! Glad they had a good time and that they're taking their placement well, 4th is nothing to sneeze at!
Eek, fingers crossed they do end up on the same team!
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It's crazy how easy they make it. It walked me through all of it, step by step instructions. Never knew how simple it is!
And it's cheap too.
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That's a decent covering! Enough for you Swedes to revel in your snow penis sculptures
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Jealous. We used to get snow in Massachusetts but I moved to an area that gets mainly rain and I hate it. I love snow so much.
What else do you do with snow?
Feel you, man! Snow is awesome!
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Likewise, Zandra, have a great week!Happy Monday Morning! Wishing you all a great week
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I wish it rained here, it was nice and sunny out, made me do things. Unpleasant!
Impulsive.
Where's Duh'Venger?
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Hi everyone! I know you most likely don't remember me, as I joined as an underage kid far long after the GW community was established, but I have the fondest memories of you all. Given I was a dumb little kid and I'm now a dumb big 30-yo man, I can only imagine how saggy you must all be getting. 
I miss the mafia games, the e-feds, PIMI, the Duh'Venger, constantly getting banned and appealing with the most egregiously pathetic begging, and attempting to slot into a community already established when I was little but a dumb kid.
Oh, and Kelly's epic thread about getting laid anime cons. That lives in my head rent free to this day.
I miss the mafia games, the e-feds, PIMI, the Duh'Venger, constantly getting banned and appealing with the most egregiously pathetic begging, and attempting to slot into a community already established when I was little but a dumb kid.
Oh, and Kelly's epic thread about getting laid anime cons. That lives in my head rent free to this day.