Yes, which is why I keep to myself and shut the majority out. I don't have time for that nonsense.
It’s the smart thing to do, otherwise you end up catching shit from every angle like I do, because I can’t just keep my mouth shut or resist questioning stuff.
Damn, that's awful about the last one, I'm sorry. I hear you though, and I'm glad you gravitated to GW rather than that. You know how well we work together on things down the years, I'd have 1,000 Marks if I could!
I knew the dude since I was 6 years old, he was the first friend I made after moving to a new school zone. Former combat veteran, former cop, survived all of that only to essentially get taken out by a slippery shower floor and a ceramic soap dish that protruded from the shower wall. He ended up lying on the floor unconscious for 3 days until another friend got into his apartment because no one had heard from him and the police were useless. He survived that, but ended up having clots form on one side of his body, which then led to nerve damage and the inability to use the arm he was laying on during that time… his dominant arm.
Same, Mark is one of the few good dudes in a world of douchebaggery and assholiness.
There’s nothing special about me, dude. I just treat people the way I want to be treated, until they don’t reciprocate, and then I treat them accordingly. I definitely have a reputation for being an asshole and unapproachable in my personal life, though. I’m very conscious of who I surround myself with these days, and have no qualms about cutting ties with people if need be. In turn, people think I’m blunt, crass, and a number of other choice words because of it. I just don’t care for people that treat other people like shit, and when someone does… I won’t hesitate to say it, especially if no one else will. I think that’s part of the reason that my group of friends was so ragtag back then. We had whites, blacks, a Pakistani, a gay guy, a trans man, and a guy with cerebral palsy all hanging out at the same table during lunch… and if someone crossed any of us, it was on. GW was the closest I could ever get to replicating that kind of crowd again, because, where I’m from? Good luck getting people like that to sit at the same table now. You can’t even get family to do that anymore.