I know I'm late and I assume that's why I can't see what the webms were, but yeah it's been really frustrating being a long time Pokemon fan. The only thing keeping me buying the games are the Pokemon designs and my love of just the concept of going on my own little adventure and finding out what my team will look like. My problem is less with the handholding and more the fact that they keep doing Nintendo's favorite strategy of scrapping things that are good/not broken while introducing random bullshit for the sake of innovation.
I hate that Exp Share now covers the entire party and can't be turned off. Pokemon level at different rates, and I like having my team all relatively around the same level so I can use them equally. So in order to do this, I now have to constantly swap half my team at the PC just to catch up new additions or those that are lagging behind. By the end of the game I have like a 12 Pokemon party.
One of the coolest things we got were Mega Evolutions, but those are never coming back because every gen needs a new gimmick to replace the old one. Dynamax and Tera stuff were sort of interesting at first, but I found it boring very quickly. I really couldn't care less if raid dungeons ever come back.
Everyone's always liked follower Pokemon, but every game is a gamble of whether we'll get them or not, and until recently character customization was the same story. But nah, those are stupid. What the people really want out of a Pokemon game is SANDWICHES!